I'm a librarian who loves anime, manga, and reading a wide variety of genres.
I'm now to the point where Eleanor just grates on my nerves. I'm pretty sure there is nothing anyone could say to her that she wouldn't mentally pick apart and twist into either an attack on herself or an attempt at patronizing her. Which isn't to say I think she's misinterpreting her current relationship with Theodora. Surely there's another bedroom Theodora could have used, considering the size of Hill House, but I wouldn't be surprised if the men thought it'd reassure Theodora and Eleanor to room together.